
FRIENDSHIP..!!!..
Sounds very simple verbiage.For two strangers it takes just a simple mutual interaction to become friends.As time passes by they become ' GOOD-FRIENDS'...BEST-FRIENDS'. 'LOVE' in fact a great inference of proposition friendship.So here comes the stage called 'JUST-FRIENDS when it comes about "one's liking...other's liking....each-other's liking".'JUST-FRIENDS' and 'LOVE' are the two processes which run parallel so 'LOVE' turns into pre-fetch of 'JUST-FRIENDS'.Execution of the pre-fetch as mutual agreement makes it happy-go-live-together BUT one's coercion and helplessness of not being together makes it dreadful.They still try to go back in the stage 'BEST-FRIENDS' and make promises for being 'FRIENDS-FOREVER' But all of sudden jumping back into a friendship reduces the love you dreamt for to "just being friends" resulting either into a stall in friendship or just formality as they hardly talk afterwards.
Most of us generally face this situation but there are few lucky individuals to come over this. I believe friendship is the best soil in which to grow a successful relationship. Such relationships are much more likely to last and reward than are the WHAM, love at first sight kind.Although love at first sight is just consequence of infatuation however it's acceptable to have love at first sight unless one successfully compiles the stage "JUST-FRIENDS". Don't let some false sense of "sportsmanship" keep you from exploring something that may turn out to be something valuable for both. Take this time for an honest look inside your self to discover what you really want. Invite your friend to do the same. Talk to each other if it seems to work for both then only go for the stage 'LOVE' because it's easy to return from the stage 'JUST-FRIENDS' to the stage 'BEST FRIENDS' but not from the stage 'LOVE' even to good friends so whenever you mean friendship,MEAN it,DAMN it.Don't let trivial things turning on your friendship because friends are many but friends who would die for you are less!!!!
It's the best feeling in the world when you meet new friends that you can't stand to be without. That you constantly want to impress to make them like you even more. They make you hope everyday that they won't leave you. Until that day when they actually do, and you're lost without them. You can't think about anything else but when you're going to see them again.
PS:This was a cryptic entry for some special pepole.
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